How to Plan the Perfect Big Sur Proposal
How to Plan the Perfect Big Sur Proposal: Romantic Ideas, Scenic Spots & Helpful Tips
Thinking about popping the question in Big Sur? You're in for something unforgettable. With its dramatic cliffs, winding coastline, and golden sunsets, Big Sur is one of the most magical places in the world to ask the love of your life to marry you.
As a local photographer who’s captured countless proposals and love stories along the coast, I’m here to share some insider tips on how to plan the most dreamy, heartfelt, and stress-free Big Sur proposal.
Why Propose in Big Sur?
Big Sur has that cinematic, larger-than-life beauty that takes your breath away—but it also has intimate, quiet corners that feel like they were made just for the two of you. Whether you’re adventurers at heart or lovers of slow, romantic moments, there’s a perfect proposal spot waiting for you.
Best Places to Propose in Big Sur
1. Garrapata State Park (Sobrantes Point Trail)
Sweeping cliffs, wildflowers in the spring, and waves crashing below—it’s a classic and stunning backdrop for a surprise proposal. It’s also a great spot for a photographer (👋🏼) to stay hidden and capture the moment candidly.
2. Pfeiffer Beach at Sunset
Known for its purple sand and keyhole rock formation, this beach glows with golden and violet light at sunset. It’s a bit of a walk down a dirt road to get there, but the payoff is next-level romantic. Make sure to check tide times for safety.
3. Bixby Bridge Viewpoints
Iconic and dramatic—if your partner loves road trips and epic views, this one’s for you. You can pull off Highway 1 just north or south of the bridge for jaw-dropping scenery.
4. Redwood Groves at Pfeiffer Big Sur State Park
Looking for a more forested, enchanted vibe? Propose beneath the towering redwoods with dappled sunlight and peaceful surroundings. It’s like something out of a fairytale.
5. Hidden Coves and Bluff Trails
For the couples who want complete privacy, I offer scouting services to help you find lesser-known, dreamy bluffs and ocean view trails for a quiet moment that feels truly yours.
Best Time of Day to Propose
Golden Hour (about 1–2 hours before sunset) is hands-down the most flattering light. Everything glows, your photos will be gorgeous, and the moment will feel extra magical.
Early Morning is best if you want privacy and don’t mind the cooler air. Plus, you’ll likely have the spot to yourselves!
Big Sur Proposal Ideas & Tips
1. Bring a Picnic (or Champagne!)
Set up a surprise picnic with a basket from a local spot like Carmel Belle or The Cheese Shop. Want to go luxe? We can coordinate with local vendors for styled setups and florals.
2. Hire a Photographer to Capture It
Whether you want me to discreetly hide behind a bush or casually pose as a tourist, I’ll be there to document the moment with candids and a mini engagement shoot after.
3. Make it a Weekend Getaway
Book a cozy cabin or a cliffside stay at places like Glen Oaks Big Sur or Ventana. Big Sur proposals are even better when they come with room service and a view.
4. Consider the Weather
Big Sur is beautiful year-round, but fog and wind can roll in unexpectedly. Having a backup time or flexible plan helps everything go smoothly.
After the “Yes!”
Plan for a celebratory dinner nearby—Nepenthe, Big Sur Bakery or Sierra Mar at Post Ranch Inn all offer unforgettable views and experiences to keep the magic going.
And if you're ready to document your engagement with more than just the proposal moment, we can turn it into a full engagement session with a location change, outfit swap, or dreamy sunset photoshoot.
Ready to Propose in Big Sur?
I’d be honored to help you plan and capture one of the biggest moments of your life. From scouting the perfect location to sneaky photography tactics to make it all a surprise—I’ve got you covered.
📸 Let’s plan something unforgettable. Reach out to book your Big Sur proposal photography experience.
