How to Plan the Perfect Carmel-by-the-Sea Proposal
Carmel-by-the-Sea is one of California’s most charming coastal towns—and easily one of the most romantic places to propose. With storybook cottages, golden-hour beaches, and wine bars tucked along cobblestone streets, it’s the perfect setting to pop the question.
As a local photographer, I’ve had the honor of capturing many once-in-a-lifetime proposals here—and I’m here to help you plan the perfect one.
Why Propose in Carmel-by-the-Sea?
Carmel is the kind of place that feels like it was made for love stories. Whether you’re envisioning a quiet beach moment, a playful afternoon in town, or a luxury coastal weekend, Carmel offers an unforgettable backdrop for your proposal.
Best Places to Propose in Carmel-by-the-Sea
1. Carmel Beach at Sunset
A classic for a reason—this beach glows in the evening light, with soft white sand and views of the Cypress trees and Pebble Beach cliffs. Propose barefoot in the sand or during a golden hour stroll.
2. Scenic Bluff Path
This coastal walking trail runs parallel to Carmel Beach, with benches and overlook points that feel secluded and romantic. It's a peaceful place to propose with ocean views and fewer crowds.
3. Mission Ranch Overlook
Owned by Clint Eastwood, this iconic spot offers ocean and meadow views, perfect for a peaceful and elegant proposal. Stay for dinner and toast to your future with local wine and live piano music.
4. Secret Courtyards in Downtown Carmel
Wander through hidden passageways and flower-lined courtyards downtown. These tucked-away spots feel like a fairytale—and make for the most intimate, charming proposals.
5. A Private Picnic Setup
Looking for something extra special? Propose during a luxury picnic setup overlooking the coast. Local vendors can provide a styled blanket, florals, snacks, and champagne—just bring the ring!
Best Time to Propose in Carmel
Golden Hour (1–2 hours before sunset): The light is warm and flattering, and the beach is glowing—perfect for both the moment and the photos.
Weekday Evenings: For quieter vibes and more privacy, plan your proposal Monday–Thursday.
Avoid the Fog: Spring and fall usually offer clearer skies. Summer mornings can be misty, but they still feel dreamy and soft.
Ways to Make Your Proposal Session Unique
1. Rent a Classic Car for a Timeless Feel
Imagine cruising down Highway 1 in a vintage convertible, the salty breeze in your hair, stopping at scenic overlooks for stunning photos.
📍 Where to Rent: Monterey Touring Vehicles offers a dreamy selection of classic cars for an unforgettable session.
2. Have a Picnic with Coastal Views
A stylish picnic adds a romantic touch and gives you space to relax and enjoy the moment. Bring a beautifully styled charcuterie board, a bottle of wine, and cozy blankets for a dreamy setup.
📍 Where to Get One: Local vendors like Big Sur Picnic Co. or Carmel-by-the-Sea picnics can set up an elegant spread for you.
3. Pop Some Bubbles & Toast to Your Love
Celebrate your engagement with a champagne toast! Whether it’s a casual sip on the beach or a dramatic spray of bubbly, it adds a fun, celebratory element to your shoot.
4. Hike to a Secluded Location
If you love adventure, consider a short hike to a breathtaking location for epic photos. Some favorite spots include:
Garrapata State Park – Wild coastal cliffs & fields of flowers
Pfeiffer Beach – The famous purple sand beach with a rugged rock arch
Point Lobos – Hidden coves and dramatic ocean views
5. Incorporate Your Favorite Hobby
Love surfing? Bring your boards for a sunset session at Carmel Beach.
Love coffee dates? Let’s start at your favorite cozy café.
Love music? Bring a guitar for an intimate serenade.
6. Book a Romantic Stay & Make it a Weekend Getaway
Turn your engagement session into a mini vacation by booking a cozy stay in Carmel or Big Sur.
📍 Where to Stay:
Post Ranch Inn – A luxury stay with breathtaking ocean views
Ventana Big Sur – A dreamy escape surrounded by redwoods
Tickle Pink Inn – Cliffside views that are picture-perfect
Proposal Tips to Make It Extra Special
Hire a Photographer (That’s Me!)
Capture the moment forever with a discreet photographer who knows the area. I’ll help with location scouting, timeline planning, and can even hide nearby to keep the surprise.
Personalize the Experience
Bring something meaningful: your dog, a handwritten letter, your favorite playlist, or a post-proposal picnic. Make it feel like you.
Celebrate After
Book a romantic dinner at one of Carmel’s most charming spots:
La Bicyclette – cozy, candlelit European vibes
The Bench at Pebble Beach – ocean views and wood-fired everything
Vesuvio Rooftop Lounge – chic ambiance with a rooftop fire pit
Let’s Make It a Moment You’ll Never Forget
Planning a Carmel-by-the-Sea proposal doesn’t have to feel overwhelming—it should feel exciting, joyful, and full of love. Whether you want something grand or completely private, I’d love to help you bring it to life and document every magical moment along the way.
Ready to plan your dream proposal in Carmel?
